The first time a friend took me "up the Heath", cruising in the woods at the top of London's Hampstead Heath, I was terrified and turned on in equal measure. Being summer, it was still quite light, but most people have had a lifetime of being warned about men lurking in the woods - and here I was taking two buses to get to them. Going "up the Heath" is a bit of a rite of passage for many gay men, often the first time you've done the anonymous sex thing, and it's something you are usually initiated into by a friend who already goes up there. Mine steered me down the steep path behind the pub car park to the main drag, a path through the trees about the size of a main road, lined not with lamp posts or speed cameras, but with men sitting on every available horizontal plane, leaning against every tree. They were smoking, ignoring their dogs a lot of "straight" men use dogs as excuses for being here , giving lots of eye-contact and, if they liked the look of you, provocatively stroking the front of their jeans or tracksuits. The men who come here are all ages, from teenage to old age, done out in anything from chavvy sportswear to walking boots, shorts and jeans with the odd bit of fetishwear thrown in.
Cottaging is a gay slang term, originating from the United Kingdom, referring to anonymous sex between men in a public lavatory a "cottage",  "tea-room"  ,  or cruising for sexual partners with the intention of having sex elsewhere. The word "cottage", usually meaning a small, cosy, countryside home, is documented as having been in use during the Victorian era to refer to a public toilet and by the s its use in this sense had become an exclusively homosexual slang term. Cottages were and are located in places heavily used by many people such as bus stations , railway stations , airports and university campuses. In some heavily used cottages, an etiquette develops and one person may function as a lookout to warn if non-cottagers are coming. Since the s, more individuals in authority have become more aware of the existence of cottages in places under their jurisdiction and have reduced the height of or even removed doors from the cubicles of popular cottages, or extended the walls between the cubicles to the floor to prevent foot signalling.
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