Did you know the Bible gives examples of sexual fantasies within marriage? This book is often overlooked, but Song of Solomon vividly describes what romance and sexuality could look like in the context of marriage. Part of nurturing a healthy marriage is nurturing healthy sexual imaginings. God wants spouses to continue to return to each other and the marriage bed. If you are allowed to be intimate with your spouse, you are allowed to think about your spouse sexually too.
Q: I've heard that sexual fantasizing is bad for my marriage, but other people tell me it's okay. I don't know what to believe. Is it okay? A: With the phenomenon of the New York Times bestselling book 50 Shades of Grey , lots of women are wondering what the big deal is with fantasy—is it a friend or enemy to marriage? Let me tell you about two people I know.
In recent days the hashtag MeToo has been used by women around the world to share their experiences of sexual harassment and assault on social media. Eternity has gathered some stories from local Christian women. They want to say MeToo.
Sexual fantasizing is a notoriously closeted subject. This silence is problematic, however, as it reinforces the notion that fantasizing is abnormal, and that those who do so are deviants. However, a new study shows that -- far from being abnormal -- sexual fantasizing is quite common.